5 Steps to Living with Passion
Living with purpose and passion inspires
creativity, fuels energy and brings fulfillment.
It’s not characterized by personality traits but rather
by an inner quality that is easily observable, whether expressed
by a penetrating, quiet intensity or zestful exuberance.
James Michener described a passion for
living well when he wrote, “The master in the art of living
makes little distinction between his work and his play, his labor
and his leisure, his mind and his body, his information and his
recreation, his love and his religion... He simply pursues his
vision of excellence at whatever he does, leaving others to decide
whether he is working or playing. To him he's always doing both.”
People don't get burned out from working
hard. They get burned out from working with the wrong spirit -
the wrong attitude of heart. It's not how many hours you put in,
it's the quality of those hours. Uncommon hours form the framework
of an uncommon life; a unique expression of passion and purpose.
How does one resist the downward pull of
mediocrity and achieve memontum to soar in the pursuit of unrealized
dreams? There are specific steps you can take to tap into the
energy that fuels your dreams.
Most of us have experienced the frustration and boredom that ensue
when trapped by circumstances seemingly beyond our control. Stress
causes tunnel vision; it creates a negative cycle of discouragement.
Furthermore, overwhelmed people tend to retreat and creativity
comes to an absolute standstill, creating even more frustration
and hopelessness. On the flip side of that are the exhilaration
and creativity that infuse a person who has vision and is on a
mission, doing what they love to do. You can begin this process
by developing the gifts and talents that are uniquely yours.
How do you find the gifts that are buried underneath disappointment,
failure and rejection? How do you really know what you’re
designed to do?
Discover your primary vocation.
What are you called to do? If you’re not sure, take a personality
and aptitude assessment or work with a success coach. Ask yourself
the question, “If I inherited a fortune tomorrow and money
was no longer a reason to work, what would I do with my time?”
Set a goal. Start with something relatively short-term
- not more than a year away. Resolve to demonstrate measurable
progress toward that goal. Use peace as a compass in setting your
direction. Activity goals should generate feelings of anticipation,
not dread. BE CAREFUL who you share your aspirations with. Negativity
is like a virus and it’s entirely too prevalent.
Get confirmation from
at least one trusted person who knows you well. Lack of self-confidence
can blind you to your own area of giftedness and rob you of creativity,
but the right words from a trusted advisor are invaluable. Whether
this person is a coach, mentor, friend or associate, be accountable
regarding your progress. Having a sounding board can save you
from costly missteps as well as provide the whisper of encouragement
to nudge you off the diving platform and into the water.
Begin. Course corrections
are a normal part of any journey, but you have to be moving in
order to know if you are going in the right direction. William
Faulkner said, “The man who removes a mountain begins by
carrying away small stones.”
Persevere. This course
is for the long-distance runner, not the sprinter. Philosopher
William James wrote, “Most people never run far enough on
their first wind to find out they’ve got a second. Give
your dreams all you’ve got and you’ll be amazed at
the energy that comes out of you.”
You can work eight hours a day in a job
you don’t like and still be a happy person. Spending just
one hour a day doing something you love can flood your mind and
spirit with positive expectation and make your days pleasurable.
Your age and your history have little bearing on your destiny
when you fan the fire of your desire to become more than you are
today. You can live the life you’ve hoped for. So what’s
your dream?
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